Has true christian love deserted the church?

When I became a christian, as a young man, I beleived I was enterying the most wonderfull movement on this earth, The Church of the Living God! I still totaly beleive it is, because of its potential under God's authority and power!
I also felt in entering the church as a young man, I was enterying a fellowship full of LOVE! I loved reading I Corinthians chapter 13, which christian hasnt? In fact scriptures stress LOVE so strongly, that without it you really havent a christian church!
But I find, that we christians really find it hard to love, especialy each other..why is this? What is wrong with us, when we function without love...can this ever be christian?
Some times faces, class, ideas, charracters, dont fit, so folks are excluded to the side lines..this does happen!
Sometimes folks in real need are excluded from any real help...because a humane decides so!
What is going wrong when this happens?
Simply my friends, we are ignoring clear scriptural teaching, the commands of Jesus!
I love the church, I yearn pray for its being blessed! But if we allow love to desert us..yes love for even the unlovely..all out outreach, missions, seminars, praise, wont help us one bit, because we have left out the most vital ellement of true christian life, LOVE!
If you are reading this, THINK! Have I/we, excluded, refused help too, passed over, someone who is a christian because of some personal, institutional, predudiced? LOVE dosent allow us to make such decisions! Go and make it right, and be reconcilled to that brother/sister!!!